Because no one should face chronic illness alone. Welcome to a place where you don’t have to explain yourself. We understand. Join us to find connection, support, and a community that truly cares.
Living with a chronic illness can feel profoundly isolating.
Chronic illness can feel like it builds walls around you. When your body limits what you can do, and your energy feels like it’s always running on empty, it’s easy to feel cut off from the world. Friends might not understand why you cancel plans, and even family can struggle to grasp what you’re facing. The result? A deep, aching loneliness that’s hard to express.
Many of us know what it’s like to miss out on milestones, to wonder if anyone truly understands. That’s why this space exists: to bridge that gap. Here, you’ll find people who recognize the exhaustion behind a simple “I’m fine,” and who appreciate that just showing up, in any way you can, matters.
You deserve friendships that embrace your life as it is, not as others expect it to be.
Drop in for a few minutes or stay longer when you’re feeling up to it. Share your day. Join a relaxed activity. Read about other people like you with no pressure to speak up if you’re not ready. You’ll be welcomed with kindness and care. And if you need a break, we’ll be here when you’re ready to return. When your energy is limited, connecting on your terms makes all the difference.
That’s where spaces like ours come in.
Our community is so much more than just a chat room.
You want chat? We've got chat! But we want to be more than that. We’re a community built around shared experiences and meaningful interactions. Laughing over a board game, hosting TV watch parties, gaming nights, supportive voice chats - we want to create these moments that help us feel truly connected.
About Us
We created this space because we needed it. This is a home for those of us who understand what it means to navigate the world with limited energy, unpredictable symptoms, and the need for deep, understanding connections. No one was going to do this for us. We all know how anyone dealing with illness gets overlooked, misunderstood, or completely ignored. Working together, over time, a group of us put each piece together—the community guidelines, the technical work, the normalization of our lives.
We need members who want to help shape the project, create events, and offer support to others. If you’re someone who loves bringing people together, organizing activities, or simply being a welcoming presence, we invite you to step forward. Every contribution, big or small, helps build something truly unique and vital. If you want to be a part of this small rebellion against the world that tells us we don’t belong, we will find something for you to do. Let us know!
You are already a part of this movement, regardless of whether you are here to organize, share your story, or simply to socialize. Every voice and each act of presence contributes to the building of a support system that shouldn't have to struggle for acceptance but does. This forum is for everyone who thinks a more compassionate, interconnected world is possible for those who can’t fit into the typical stereotype of what a happy social life looks like.
Community Guidelines
To ensure this space remains safe, welcoming, and supportive for everyone, we have a few simple but important guidelines:
18+ Community: For safety and comfort, our server is exclusively for adults (18+). This helps us create an environment where members can openly discuss their experiences without concern.
Respect, Kindness, and Empathy: We strive to maintain a culture of understanding, patience, and support. Treat others with respect, offer kindness, and remember that everyone here is facing their own challenges.
No Uncivil Behavior: Harassment, bullying, discrimination, or hostility of any kind will not be tolerated. We take this seriously and will enforce it to keep our community a safe space.
Healthy Boundaries in Friendships: We encourage genuine friendships to form, but this is a space for connection and support—not for unsolicited private approaches. Engaging in meaningful discussions in public spaces helps build trust. Repeated private advances toward members, especially without participating in the community, is not appropriate.
Moderation and Enforcement:
We are committed to maintaining this culture. If necessary, we will step in to ensure the community remains welcoming and inclusive for everyone.
New to Discord?
If you’ve never used Discord before, don’t worry—it’s just another website/app people use to chat and connect! It’s similar to other messaging platforms, with text channels for different topics and voice channels for talking in real-time. If you can send a text or join a group chat, you can use Discord!
If you ever feel lost, just ask! We’re happy to help you get comfortable using the server so you can focus on connecting with others in a way that works for you.
